tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1353305999980150072.post5675510874269693930..comments2023-10-30T07:52:29.450-07:00Comments on Choosing To Live A GREAT Life!: Home Rain HomeRachellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14059099759960889139noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1353305999980150072.post-16280355467726858172009-04-22T07:47:00.000-07:002009-04-22T07:47:00.000-07:00Rachelle, Rachelle, Rachelle. I don't hear whining...Rachelle, Rachelle, Rachelle. I don't hear whining at all. BUT, I hear "fix it". You are a "boot grabber/puller upper" kinda gal. I KNOW as sure as I am sitting here that you of all people, will come out on the other side. But guess what, I don't think you will be the same "Rachelle". How can you? You have great big huge giganto expectations of yourself. Cut yourself some slack. I KNOW you want to "pull it together" and come back to this pre-loss-of-mom space...and I KNOW this is SO cliche, but somehow somewhere this is molding, changing and creating something/perhaps someone different. I don't understand why terrible, hurtful things happen. But, YOU are entitled to your grief. Remember, it is undefined because it belongs to you, as it does to your dad and grandparents. Sometimes, it is a very difficult fight to separate the intellectual from the emotional. I always know how I'm "supposed" to feel, or that I'm not "supposed" to worry, etc. But, oh sometimes it is so very very hard to DO it. I guess it will all shape to form a new and different path. Please, don't feel guilty about your definition of what and who Rachelle is "supposed" to be. We are all still going to love you and be here while you are getting to the other side and when you get to the other side, just as we do now.sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13193507270724969256noreply@blogger.com